Empati pada pelaku bullying
Abstract
Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengidentifikasikan dan mengetahui secara lebih mendalam alasan-alasan pelaku bullying melakukan bullying dan juga bertujuan untuk mengetahui gambaran empati pelaku bullying di Sekolah Menengah Atas. Penelitian ini merupakan penelitian kualitatif dengan pendekatan studi kasus. Subjek yang terlibat dalam penelitian ini berjumlah dua orang yang dipilih berdasarkan teknik purposive sampling dan teknik pengumpulan data yang dilakukan adalah menggunakan observasi dan wawancara mendalam. Berdasarkan hasil penelitian diketahui bahwa alasan pelaku bullying melakukan perbuatan bullying yaitu dikarenakan faktor karakteristik korban, sikap korban, tradisi/budaya bullying di sekolah. Pelaku bullying melakukan bullying juga dikarenakan memiliki kemampuan empati yang rendah. Ketidakmampuan pelaku untuk berempati menyebabkan mereka kurang mampu untuk melihat dari sudut pandang orang lain, mengenali perasaan orang lain dan menyesuaikan kepeduliannya dengan tepat. Kurangnya empati dari pelaku menyebabkan pelaku kurang memahami kondisi korban, tidak peduli dengan korban dan cenderung melakukan tindakan kekerasan kepada orang atau korban.
This study aimed at identifying and understanding more deeply the reasons doing the bullying and to describe empathy bullies in high school. This research is a qualitative case study approach. Subjects involved in this study is two people chosen by purposive sampling technique and the data were collected using the techniques of observations and in-depth interviews. Based on the research results know that the reasons bullies bullying act because characteristic factor of the victim, the victim attitude, and tradition/culture of bullying at school. The bullies have a low capacity for empathy. Inability the bullies to empathize cause them less able to see the perspective of others, recognize the feelings of others and adjust to the proper concern. Lack of empathy the bullies bringing not understanding of the condition of the victim, no matter the victim and tend to commit acts of violence to the person or the victim.
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